Category: Love and Relationship

  • We share her peacefully’ – Rwandan Twin brothers who married one wife

    We share her peacefully’ – Rwandan Twin brothers who married one wife

     

    A Rwandan woman identified as Marie Josiane from Rwanda has married two brothers who are identical twins.

    The young lady revealed that she first dated the elder twin who did not disclose that he had an identical brother.

    In a video shared by Afrimax TV, Marie said had never seen them together. However, on one faithful day she met, hugged and kissed the other brother without knowing that he was not the one she was dating.

    The second twin then fell for her, but when they all realised what had happened, they chose to happily be in an polyandrous relationship.

    The woman also revealed that hate or envy does not exist between the two brothers due to the fact that they are both married to one woman.

    The three have been staying together for the past two years and counting.

    The twin brothers say due to the nature of their marriage, people say a lot of things but they always turn a deaf ear because they ae happy sharing her.

    They are expecting their first born soon.

  • I Remember A Divorce Case I Handled Some Years Ago BY FIRST BABA ISA

    I Remember A Divorce Case I Handled Some Years Ago BY FIRST BABA ISA

     

    The Respondent, the wife, blatantly refused to show up in court or engage a lawyer; and the judge wasn’t ready to proceed without her.

    One day in court, the judge, again, refused to proceed with the matter without the woman. That we must meet with her and hold the statutory conference before she will hear the matter. I told the judge we have served her the petition and the hearing notice for today’s sitting and clearly she is not interested in defending the petition, so, we should proceed in the interest of justice.

    The judge come vex for me o. That I should do more than that. I should get her number, call her and try to see her and hold a meeting with both of them and try to settle them. E come be like say na me wan scatter their marriage.

    The judge asked the petitioner, my client, if he doesn’t want settlement, he said no. He was visibly angry, talking about how he just wants a divorce immediately and nothing else. That they are still living together and that he is just waiting for the divorce to leave the house or kick the woman out.

    Judge says I should still meet with both of them. Everybody knows that this is the point you must shout “As the Court pleases” to avoid wahala.

    After court I collected the Respondent’s phone number from my client and called her immediately. I requested to meet with her and invited her to come to my office. Madam said she is not coming anywhere, that if I want to meet with her, my client should bring me to their house.

    I went back to the office after agreeing with my client that I will come over to his house after the close of work that same day.

    I went to their house by 5pm. We sat down and starting talking about the issue. Then I got a bombshell.

    She: Did your client tell you that he is serious about that divorce?

    Me: Yes. We are in court already. He even told the judge so this morning in court. He is here now, he can tell you himself.

    She: Serious about which divorce? Is it not that court he came back from this afternoon and came and collect one doggy?

    I was totally flabbergasted. I didn’t expect that kind of raw bluntness from her. I turned to my client, he was silent and avoiding my eyes.

    Doggy? I carried my file quietly, entered my car and left.

    Like doggy? After all that heat I faced in court, you even stood there, forming anger, then you came back and collect hot doggy in the afternoon?

    What do you take lawyers for in this country? Doggy? You couldn’t even do missionary in appreciation of the lashing that judge gave me because of your divorce case, you went and did doggy. Doggy that use to sweet like wetin. 😭

    Mr Evaritus Gregory. Sir, though it is 4 years now, but I still remember. I know you will read this. I know you will laugh… from the bottom of my heart, sir, thunder fire you. 😭

    Not real name

    – By First Baba Isa (FBI)

  • My Fiancé Hasn’t Dropped Any Money – Nigerian Lady Calls Off Wedding 3 Days To D-day

    My Fiancé Hasn’t Dropped Any Money – Nigerian Lady Calls Off Wedding 3 Days To D-day

    A Nigerian lady identified as Kemi says she has canceled her wedding due to her fiancé’s failure to release funds for the planning.

    She said that since he engaged her and fixed a date for the wedding, she’s been handling all expenses because he has not dropped any money towards the wedding arrangement.

    She announced the cancellation just three days to the wedding, mentioning her fiance’s nonchalant attitude as the main reason for her action.

    According to Kemi, he told her that his money is in fixed deposit and offered to refund her everything that she spent.

    She, however, said she visited a counselor and made a decision to cancel the wedding, though she is not confident that she made the right decision.

    Kemi wrote; ”Just called off my wedding because of my fiancé nonchalant attitude. This guy hasn’t dropped one penny and wedding is in 3days, he keeps saying his money is in fixed deposit and that he will refund me. Spoke to a counselor and decided to call it off. Hope I did the right thing.”

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  • If You Have Big Dreams, Do not Date A Boy Or Man Who Has Nothing To Lose BY WOFAI USANI

    If You Have Big Dreams, Do not Date A Boy Or Man Who Has Nothing To Lose BY WOFAI USANI

     

    As a young girl who is growing with potentials, stay away from boys or men who have nothing to lose. Be very intentional about who you date or get involved with. I had rather aimed high and date a man who has something to lose; potentials, who has great dreams and a future not to be toyed with, than settle for any kind of male.
    When you see a man who has something to lose you will know; he is that man who has ambition, that man who has big dreams, that man who wants affluence and influence in the society!

    Any man who is involved in politics, leadership or a very committed career male, is someone who has something to lose and he will protect you and himself because he has a reputation at stake.

    As a lady, getting involved with any guy you see on the street is very deadly. Infact even replying their texts and giving them attention on your Dm is a potential threat to who you want to be in future!

    It is normal for guys to like you, it shows you are attractive.What is not normal is you giving any tom, dick and harry attention on your Dms! You need to set a standard for yourself, Know the kind of men you want to interact and be around wirh!

    You will be call rude, proud, but if you don’t give any kind of nigga attention, it is a healthy pride! You don’t need that!

    You have the inaleanable right and power to choose and set a standard for yourself. I don’t give my attention to any kind of man, call me what you want, but i have big eyes!! I only give my attention to influence, affluence, potentials and big dreams.

    You may just want to play around and have some fun, but I tell you the chances of you getting blackmailed are very high!! Learn to build a defense, your defense might be; being strict, difficult or stubborn but have one!!!
    Don’t, I mean do not get involved with anyone just because he is handsome and dripping fashion. The biggest blackmailers are hidden under good looks and great fashion sense. Be very selective! I choose and select the men I give my attention to on a very high level! I have standards! You cannot pick me, I do the picking! You need to have vision! If you don’t have a reputation to protect nor hold yourself in high esteem you cant have my attention.

    You are going to be great soon, sex with one wrong person can destroy everything you built.

    Sip and meditate on this piece
    Have very wonderful morning and a great day ahead.

  • You Might Succeed In Buying Fake Love, But When The Money Is Out Of The Equation Or She Starts Making Hers, You Become Useless BY WOFAI USANI

    You Might Succeed In Buying Fake Love, But When The Money Is Out Of The Equation Or She Starts Making Hers, You Become Useless BY WOFAI USANI

    It’s easier to find a man who has money than a man who is mentally sound and emotionally available.
    May God give young men the wisdom to know that money will not buy you real love. You might succeed in buying fake love but when the money is out of the equation or when she starts making hers, you become useless!

    In recent times, men have been complaining about how women are after money, while I am not affirming that it should be so, the truth, regardless is, some men have nothing to offer asides money.
    When we remove money from the equation, you find out that some guys are empty; no spice, no intellectual treasure, no motivation, no care, no romance, nothing! I mean nothing!! They believe that everything is about money, so they refuse to work on themselves to have other attributes that will keep a relationship going!! No act of service, no words of affirmation! Most young men today want to make money, not because they want to provide. Most young men make money because they believe that money will keep marriages or relationships. This is the reason why women leave marriages and relationships when they have their monies.

    Yes, money can get you a relationship or marriage, but will money keep it?!
    Money can never keep a relationship together, if it could, Bill Gates wouldn’t have divorced his ex-wife, Melinda Gates. As a man you need to make deliberate efforts to spice up your relationship and marriage, you need to be intentional about making her happy! If you think your money will cover up for the emotional inadequacy, you are wrong! She will stay in that relationship or marriage for as long as she can to build herself and make her own money, and once she does, she moves on!!! Be intentional about care, affection, attention, and making out time to spend quality moments together.
    While most women who marry rich men cheat as a result of old habits that never die, some cheat for lack of emotional availability! She will carry your money and give it to some guy out there to satisfy her emotionally if you don’t!

    Your job is not only to give her money as a single man or pay bills and give her school fees for the children as a married man! You are to make her happy and emotionally satisfied!

    If money is all you have to offer, you are of no use when she starts making hers!

    ‘A woman feels she doesn’t need any man when she makes money’
    (It is because most men have nothing to offer asides from MONEY).

  • May We Find True Love In A world Where Almost Everything Is Transactional BY WOFAI USANI

    May We Find True Love In A world Where Almost Everything Is Transactional BY WOFAI USANI

    May we find love!

    In a world where almost everything is transactional!
    In a world of hard men and hard women!
    In a world ravaged with people whose emotions have been tortured and almost destroyed!
    In a world of demons hiding under the guise of love to Mar!
    May love win!
    May pure love prevail!
    Love without fear of vulnerability
    Love without lies and deceit
    May we not fall victims of another person’s mistakes !
    May we heal from our trauma’s and learn to accept real love when we see it and not question it!!
    May we learn to love purely from the depth of our being!
    May we learn, unlearn and relearn how to love those we love!

    May love succeed❤️pure undiluted love
    Amen!

  • Four Signs Your Female Friend Want To Have S3x With You

    Four Signs Your Female Friend Want To Have S3x With You

    women are complicated , not only are they hard to read, but they often don’t disclose everything they’re feeling. This can make it especially difficult to understand if they’re interested in a friendship or a romantic relationship.

    I mean, it’s easy to tell when a guy wants to have s3x with his female friends.

    But what about the other way around? Admittedly, the world is full of women who are desperately trying to take their friendship to the next level. Nobody wants to be stuck in the “friendzone of shame.”

    But don’t worry, gentleman. If you’re wondering if your female friend wants to sleep with you, then there are a few key signs to look out for.

    1. She Puts Effort Into Her Appearance
    Sure, she rocks yoga pants and a messy bun when she’s out with the girls. But when you’re around, it’s full-on makeup and an outfit that makes her body look absolutely bangin’.

    You didn’t just catch her on the way to dinner. She knows exactly what she’s doing. And that’s making sure she’s the hottest thing in your line of sight.

    Eyeliner? Perfect. Lipstick? On Fleek. Hairdo? Not a single strand out of place.

    Oh, and what’s that lovely scent? That’s right — she also made sure to douse herself in her favorite perfume. Whether it’s White Almond Huckleberry Blossom or Indian Summer Fresh Citrus, she’ll want you to smell her long after she’s gone.

    2. She Doesn’t Talk About Her Dating Life
    While she loves to interject herself into your current relationships, she wants to keep hers off-limits.

    I mean, you wouldn’t brag about your love life to your crush, would you?

    Exactly.

    She’s keeping her doors open to a possible relationship with you. And that means avoiding any unwanted awkwardness or jealousy that could come from talking about her dating life.

    On the other hand, she might complain about how bad her new boy toy is in bed. If that’s the case, then she’s probably hoping that you’ll save her from her misery.

    3. She Texts You Randomly Throughout the Day
    She saw a cute dog. She heard a funny joke. She read about some heated debate in the New York Times. Everything she sees throughout her day reminds her of you.

    And she’s not afraid to tell you.

    Little reminders show you that you’re always on her mind. It also keeps her in the picture. You know, just in case you were out checking out other girls or something.

    4. She Uses Any Excuse to Touch You
    Fellas, this may be the most obvious sign yet.

    If she grazes her knee against yours or touches your biceps when telling a joke, she’s totally DTF. Trust me — no woman wants to touch or even go near a guy she didn’t find attractive.

    Also, take note of how she touches herself when you two are together (not like that — get your mind outta the gutter.)

    Is she playing with her hair? Is she licking her lips? Is she pulling down her shirt to expose a little bit more of her cleavage? These are just a few s3xy signals she’s trying to give off.