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  • If You Have Big Dreams, Do not Date A Boy Or Man Who Has Nothing To Lose BY WOFAI USANI

    If You Have Big Dreams, Do not Date A Boy Or Man Who Has Nothing To Lose BY WOFAI USANI

     

    As a young girl who is growing with potentials, stay away from boys or men who have nothing to lose. Be very intentional about who you date or get involved with. I had rather aimed high and date a man who has something to lose; potentials, who has great dreams and a future not to be toyed with, than settle for any kind of male.
    When you see a man who has something to lose you will know; he is that man who has ambition, that man who has big dreams, that man who wants affluence and influence in the society!

    Any man who is involved in politics, leadership or a very committed career male, is someone who has something to lose and he will protect you and himself because he has a reputation at stake.

    As a lady, getting involved with any guy you see on the street is very deadly. Infact even replying their texts and giving them attention on your Dm is a potential threat to who you want to be in future!

    It is normal for guys to like you, it shows you are attractive.What is not normal is you giving any tom, dick and harry attention on your Dms! You need to set a standard for yourself, Know the kind of men you want to interact and be around wirh!

    You will be call rude, proud, but if you don’t give any kind of nigga attention, it is a healthy pride! You don’t need that!

    You have the inaleanable right and power to choose and set a standard for yourself. I don’t give my attention to any kind of man, call me what you want, but i have big eyes!! I only give my attention to influence, affluence, potentials and big dreams.

    You may just want to play around and have some fun, but I tell you the chances of you getting blackmailed are very high!! Learn to build a defense, your defense might be; being strict, difficult or stubborn but have one!!!
    Don’t, I mean do not get involved with anyone just because he is handsome and dripping fashion. The biggest blackmailers are hidden under good looks and great fashion sense. Be very selective! I choose and select the men I give my attention to on a very high level! I have standards! You cannot pick me, I do the picking! You need to have vision! If you don’t have a reputation to protect nor hold yourself in high esteem you cant have my attention.

    You are going to be great soon, sex with one wrong person can destroy everything you built.

    Sip and meditate on this piece
    Have very wonderful morning and a great day ahead.

  • You Might Succeed In Buying Fake Love, But When The Money Is Out Of The Equation Or She Starts Making Hers, You Become Useless BY WOFAI USANI

    You Might Succeed In Buying Fake Love, But When The Money Is Out Of The Equation Or She Starts Making Hers, You Become Useless BY WOFAI USANI

    It’s easier to find a man who has money than a man who is mentally sound and emotionally available.
    May God give young men the wisdom to know that money will not buy you real love. You might succeed in buying fake love but when the money is out of the equation or when she starts making hers, you become useless!

    In recent times, men have been complaining about how women are after money, while I am not affirming that it should be so, the truth, regardless is, some men have nothing to offer asides money.
    When we remove money from the equation, you find out that some guys are empty; no spice, no intellectual treasure, no motivation, no care, no romance, nothing! I mean nothing!! They believe that everything is about money, so they refuse to work on themselves to have other attributes that will keep a relationship going!! No act of service, no words of affirmation! Most young men today want to make money, not because they want to provide. Most young men make money because they believe that money will keep marriages or relationships. This is the reason why women leave marriages and relationships when they have their monies.

    Yes, money can get you a relationship or marriage, but will money keep it?!
    Money can never keep a relationship together, if it could, Bill Gates wouldn’t have divorced his ex-wife, Melinda Gates. As a man you need to make deliberate efforts to spice up your relationship and marriage, you need to be intentional about making her happy! If you think your money will cover up for the emotional inadequacy, you are wrong! She will stay in that relationship or marriage for as long as she can to build herself and make her own money, and once she does, she moves on!!! Be intentional about care, affection, attention, and making out time to spend quality moments together.
    While most women who marry rich men cheat as a result of old habits that never die, some cheat for lack of emotional availability! She will carry your money and give it to some guy out there to satisfy her emotionally if you don’t!

    Your job is not only to give her money as a single man or pay bills and give her school fees for the children as a married man! You are to make her happy and emotionally satisfied!

    If money is all you have to offer, you are of no use when she starts making hers!

    ‘A woman feels she doesn’t need any man when she makes money’
    (It is because most men have nothing to offer asides from MONEY).