Category: Opinion

  • Bob Marley Was So Right When He Said……

    Bob Marley Was So Right When He Said……

    Bob Marley was so right when he said…..💚🌿

    “You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters?

    She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can.

    She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give.

    Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”
    🙏👏
    Class dismissed 🥂

  • On The Unpredictability of Things BY RICHARD INOYO

    On The Unpredictability of Things BY RICHARD INOYO

     

    There are those who came to us with opened arms and demand we give them all we have, for hunger has found refuge in their pouch and their soul is tormented with want of food. Some, with arms they approach residence and offices and loot what isn’t theirs and justify the terror. Not many has seen the boundary of raw rage in the absence of opportunity to earn, feed, cloth and shelter. As a country, the notion that the doctrine of survival is a textbook exercise and has no real bearing to human unpredictability as regards new danger or old terror is questionable and misleading. If there is one thing evolution taught earliest humans is that humans will feed on humans in the absence of alternative meal.

    Cannibalism isn’t necessarily the societal construct of humans eating other human flesh and getting drunk in the blood and liquidates of fellow humans, rather it is the sociopathic manifestation and reminder that in the absence of shared affection and care, new terror and old danger abound. The epistemology which occupies the realm of thought and imposes the thinking that man can’t degenerate into confrontation, arm conflicts and eventual destructions of his own race has dominantly failed to capture war history into the bricks that lay the groundwork for such ahistorical conclusion. We call on all to proceed with caution and offer care when it’s truly needed, in such we survive self-destruction.

    The Nigerian government should act with all urgency to end the looting of our sovereign wealth by its leadership, lest the public arms in the care of military and paramilitary institutions may fail them as they rest their protection on such. 340,000 police men and an equally rough population of all military forces combined may not prevent the keg of gunpowder which they have concluded won’t explode to explode. Make hay while the sun is seen for the N5Billion Presidential Yacht and N160million SUVs are exceeding the boundaries of the Nigerian patience and public anger. We condemn the brutalization of NLC President, Mr. Joe Ajaero.

    Signed.

    Richard F Inoyo,
    Country Director,
    *Citizens’ Solution Network*

  • Who Is A Fearless Man? BY AGBA JALINGO

    Who Is A Fearless Man? BY AGBA JALINGO

    Who Is A Fearless Man?

    Fear is one of the most basic emotions embedded in the nervous system. Not just that of man, but in every creature that has nerves. All creatures that have nerves are equipped with the survival instinct necessary to respond with fear when we sense danger or feel unsafe. It is a warning or signal to be careful and to escape from danger. The reason you run when you see an oncoming vehicle is because of that natural fear instinct. So there is no such thing as a fearless man or woman.

    Anytime we encounter anything we fear, whether physical or emotional, the brain immediately transmits the information to the nervous system. The nervous system then prepares you to either flee or fight. The preparation process usually includes faster heartbeat, intense breathing, perspiration, sensation. Blood pumps with increased pressure to the muscles to prepare the body for physical action.

    Because the fear instinct is programmed to protect you, it is activated faster than the thinking faculty of the brain, which processes the information. As soon as the brain evaluates the information and gives an all clear signal, the fear instinct is immediately turned off. All this process is completed in seconds.

    We all have our different fears. People fear situations or things that make them feel unsafe. People fear the uncertainty of the future or the next moment. And there are many people who prefer to avoid their fears. It usually seems like an easier path. But it is simple knowledge that you cannot overcome what you avoid. We overcome our fears by giving ourselves the chance to learn about and gradually get used to those things or situations that make us fear.

    Tourists who visit a zoo may be afraid of lions, but the care givers who tender the lions have overcome that fear. If you are not a trained paratrooper, you will be afraid of jumping from heights. That fear helps to keep you out of danger. But if you receive the training, you gradually overcome that fear and become adept in para-trooping.

    So in essence, a fearless man is not the one that does not have fears, it is the one who has learnt to overcome his fears. We all have fears. Those things that suddenly increase our blood pressure. But whether these fears are sudden or prolonged, it is by staying very determined to confront them that is the most formidable path. Face that fear today!

    Yours sincerely,
    Citizen Agba Jalingo.

     

    Disclaimer: The opinion expressed in this article are strictly that of the author, Agba Jalingo and does not represent TheLumineNews or its agent.

  • Grow Above Offenses, Maintain Relationships With People BY PETER OLADELE FATOMILOLA

    Grow Above Offenses, Maintain Relationships With People BY PETER OLADELE FATOMILOLA

    GROW ABOVE OFFENCES

    Maintain Relationships With People

    It is childish and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrong and then start keeping grudges as a result.

    Grow above it.

    Someone did not invite you for their celebration (s), you pick offence with them.

    Someone didn’t wish you happy birthday, you pick offence with the person

    They didn’t like your facebook post, you pick offence.

    They didn’t support you in a disagreement you had with someone, you pick offence with them.

    They are junior and they have the audacity to talk or oppose your opinion. You pick offence with them.

    They said NO to your request, you pick offence and malice starts.

    You asked them for money, they said they didn’t have it, you pick offence with them.

    You are even keeping a record of people who came around when you were grieved, so you can know who to pick offence with.

    See!!!

    Everyone has battles you are not aware of.

    Those who you need help from are also looking for help.

    Not everything is Personal and intentional.

    Not everyone hates you and never hate anyone.

    Sometimes, people are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, human weaknesses and limitations.

    Learn how to manage being disappointed by people and still be on talking terms with them. It will save you a lot of UNNECESSARY grudges and save you some Friendships you may need in future.

    Grow above offences.

    Peter Oladele Fatomilola

  • Calabar And Insecurity: An Expanding Concern Yet To Be Addressed BY RICHARD INOYO 

    Calabar And Insecurity: An Expanding Concern Yet To Be Addressed BY RICHARD INOYO 

    Calabar And Insecurity: An Expanding Concern Yet To Be Addressed

    Monday, 13th November, 2023 | 9:27AM

    She had gone to Holy Family Catholic Church in Big Qua Town to worship, on coming out to pick something from her car less than 9minutes of parking the car, she came out and discovered someone had entered and started the car. In shock, she shouted, “thieve! thieve!!”. Confidently the car thief reversed the car, head towards highway, and the rest they say is history.

    When I ran into her, she was still in pains three months after her car was stolen, nothing has been heard about her car. She was quick to remind me that, that car made it possible for her to move around and to carry her kids to school not even mentioning the fact that her gratuity of service was what that car represented. A retiree who now treks due to a car crime in Calabar that has spiralled out of state control.

    Ededet Effiong, whose car was equally stolen just last month, on the 5th of October around 2pm, ran into me a week ago before I traveled. He decried the frustration of his car that was stolen. And in his raw and expressive pain, he was of the view that it is completely depressing to know that nothing tangible has come out from the search exercise one month after and neither the police force nor any paramilitary institutions have been able to solve this car theft problem as he narrated to me that, just two weeks ago another car was stolen opposite the Redeemed Christian Church of God at Akim Timber Market.

    That is three car gone, Citizens’ Solution Network hasn’t mentioned theirs nor provided the full list of what is plaguing the state due to the absence of strong leadership to end this crime.

    Charles Eyo, a renowned journalist, yesterday being Sunday was explaining to Agba Jalingo how armed robbers with machetes, guns, sticks, etc took over the Calabar-Itu road and dispossessed travelers and commuters of their belongings yesterday, and that they operated for hours and no security or law enforcement agency came to the rescue of these hapless citizens.

    This is the situation we find ourselves in the State, where citizens are left to suffer under the encouraged crime-ribbon that is spreading across every part including homes, offices and roads, yet every month, billions of Nairas come to Cross River State as State and Local Government Allocations not even listing security votes amidst huge internally generated revenues. Question is, what are all these money used for? Security and welfare are the first score cards, outside propaganda what can you point to?

    Too often those of us asking that something reasonable, responsible and responsive be done are considered the problem, they just want citizens to endure the pain, suck it up and die in their frustration. And what happens too often? Jungle justice becomes the order of the day in the visible absence of State coordinate response to growing and expanding insecurity in the state. The question is no longer if, it’s when someone else becomes the next victim. I was at Rwanda sometime back and I discovered that, every major street has cameras, I mean Rwanda, that is an African country and they ain’t wiser than us and the credit to a large extent is due to what the governors and mayors are doing than what the media want people to believe that all credit goes to Paul Kagame.

    There has been sustained calls by activists sent to the State Government to use technology and proper funding of the State Police Command to deter these crimes, because from all indications, Calabar has fast become the safest haven to steal car, kidnap hard-working professionals like Prof. Ephraim and go scot-free, and then plan the next attack since nothing on ground suggests deterrence, counter intelligence and rebalancing of the fear matrix against the criminals who now move freely with the audacity to steal cars, rob whosoever they please and even kidnap who they target with little or no cameras and intelligence to track where they are, living citizens to pay money to continue the search and retrieval process of either their stolen items or loved ones respectively.

    As they say, the cost of insecurity can be unquantifiable; as I remember the woman whose car was stolen in her pains and Mr. Ededet’s suffering since that incidence happened just to mention a few; someone was quick to bring to my attention that, the funeral procession that happened in the Dome at the Calabar Municipal Council last month, was that of one of the patients of Prof. Ephraim_ the neurologist who was caring for the stroke patient until the doctor was kidnapped, and the patient had to die in the absence of her care giver who happened to be Prof Ephraim. But that isn’t all, the sister of Prof. Ephraim had long suffered psychological breakdown since she had come to the frustration of her sister’s kidnapping that has entered months without closure from a so called community project government_ that says voting them into winning their election is a community project that all citizens should join hands to achieve for them during the election, and now, since they got into Peregrino Government House in Calabar, all you see is the tightening of their own personal security with escorts, and arm guards while public security is treated with utter disregard thereby causing organisations like mine to suffer car theft and others to go through one insecurity pain or the other. So, who is fooling who? During election, they come with the mantra of community project, and afterwards, all citizens are abandoned to fed for themselves as they suffer irresponsive leadership to their plight.

    It is the primary responsibility for Government to protect citizens and their assets using public wealth and arms in their disposal from insecurity. That responsibility in itself is the bargaining chip for faith in government and political survival. Hence the need for the government to prioritize public security in the same measure they fund and supply the need of their private guards as overseen by state resources. The lamed press release that says insecurity is a national problem and commonplace should be discarded_ nobody elects any person to keep doling such expired and dysfunctional justification for ineptitude in the face of new crime estimates.

    *Citizens’ Observatory*, the research wing of Citizens’ Assembly and Citizens’ Solution Network, will continue to investigate, document and report this abandonment of citizens to their travails as they suffer from possible suicidal silence from insecurity especially as nothing as regards Victims’ Funds and Crime Victim Support Centre isn’t set up to help cushion the financial and distabling psychological burden that comes with their losses, pains and frustration due to insecurity in the State, and to enable victims get back on track with the belief that their government shows up when they are in pains through such proposed victim’s support funds and centre.

    Signed

    Richard F Inoyo,
    Country Director,
    Citizens’ Solution Network

  • Football Analyst, Simon Utsu Berates Lionel Messi For Acting Unruly After His Defeat

    Football Analyst, Simon Utsu Berates Lionel Messi For Acting Unruly After His Defeat

    A football Analyst, Simon Utsu has berated a football super star, Lionel Messi, for his Unruly behavior after his tram’s defeat by Uruguay.

    Utsu took to his verified Facebook page and stated that “Here is their goat, doing silly things yesterday night, after his side were outplayed and roundly defeated by Uruguay. I thought they claim he’s an epitome of humility & simplicity. I can’t remember when attempted manslaughter(by asphyxiation) became the definition of humility.

    “Ironically, this happened on the same night that the real deal, the Portuguese delight(I wont mention his name so some people dont go gaga), broke a couple of international goal scoring records(which he’d previously set of course!).

    “I know Leo is crooked FIFA’s first bride so they won’t discipline him accordingly.”

  • For No Longer Shall We Be Silenced, Oppressed: Our voices Shall Rise, We Won’t Acquiesce. In The Face Of Adversity, We’ll Stand Tall And Reclaim Our Rights, For One And For All BY FREDALINE IBOBO

    For No Longer Shall We Be Silenced, Oppressed: Our voices Shall Rise, We Won’t Acquiesce. In The Face Of Adversity, We’ll Stand Tall And Reclaim Our Rights, For One And For All BY FREDALINE IBOBO

    In the realm of governance, where power resides,
    A tale unfolds, where shadows hide.
    A nation’s fuel, a lifeline’s thread,
    Now wielded as a weapon, causing dread.

    Our government, entrusted to protect,
    Instead, their actions, we cannot neglect.
    They raise the price, with callous intent,
    To suffocate and strangle, leaving us spent.

    In the corridors of power, they conspire,
    To crush our spirits, fueling our ire.
    With every hike, they tighten the noose,
    Ignoring the cries, the public’s abuse.

    But let us not falter, in the face of despair,
    For in unity, our strength we shall share.
    We’ll rise together, our voices resound,
    Demanding justice, on sacred ground.

    In eloquent prose, we’ll articulate,
    The grievances felt, the burdens we hate.
    With advanced English, we’ll make our stand,
    Exposing their tactics, across the land.

    For words hold power, to ignite the flame,
    To rally the masses, to break the chain.
    We’ll pen our thoughts, with passion and grace,
    Unleashing a storm, they cannot erase.

    So let us rise, with courage and might,
    To fight for justice, in this endless fight.
    Our government’s ploy, we shall dismantle,
    With words as our weapons, we’ll kindle.

    For no longer shall we be silenced, oppressed,
    Our voices shall rise, we won’t acquiesce.
    In the face of adversity, we’ll stand tall,
    And reclaim our rights, for one and for all.
    ©️Bobfred

    Disclaimer: The Opinion expressed here is strictly that of the author, Fredaline Ibobo and does not represent TheLumineNews or its agent.

  • Sunday Musings: They Are Mendacious… BY AGBA JALINGO

    Sunday Musings: They Are Mendacious… BY AGBA JALINGO

    Sunday Musings: They Are Mendacious…

    Anyone who drives in cutting edge bullet proof automobiles with a bevy of gun wielding security and offers you prayer and totems for God’s protection, is mendacious.

    Timid prayerful folks who hand their security over to the God of another tribe who defend themselves with Iron Dome, F16 Jets, Tanks and Phosphorus bombs, are themselves, very mendacious.

    Anyone who invades you, conquers you, enslaves you, assimilates you, steals your GOLD and takes more than six million of you into slave labor, and pretends to show you the road to an eternal GOLD plated paradise, is mendacious.

    Those who flood your continent with millions of small arms and turn around to fund NGOs and MDAs’ campaigns to mop up the small arms they dumped on you, are mendacious.

    Those who told you God is male and are now working to make the same God gender neutral, never knew God in the first place. They are mendacious!

    Those who told you God created us male and female and are now creating all manner of additional genders, are mendacious.

    Those who condemned your tradition, called it vindictive and taught you to turn the other cheek when you are smacked but are now returning an eye for an eye, are mendacious.

    Those who taught you to discard the iron teeth of chastisement of your gods that preserved your communality, and embrace their papyrus of inanities, which has enlivened us, are mendacious.

    But in contemporary times, mendacity has become a well thought out model and a near best practice. So, even giving a thought to some of what I have adduced here may be viewed as mendacious. The world has incrementally grown to bedding comfort with mendacity and has adorned a garland on the same. The perquisites of stardom now lavishly include the rich garnishing of mendacious recipes with tows of applause. But in the beam of lies, it takes only a ray of illumination to pierce through the veil and vanquish the cast.

    I wish you a happy Sunday and God’s blessings.

    Yours sincerely,
    Citizen Agba Jalingo.

    Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are strictly that of the author, Agba Jalingo and  does not represent TheLumineNews or its agent.

  • General Władysław Franciszek Jabłonowski Played Prominent Roles And Contributed To The Development Of European Countries BY CHIEF OBONO OBLA

    General Władysław Franciszek Jabłonowski Played Prominent Roles And Contributed To The Development Of European Countries BY CHIEF OBONO OBLA

    General Władysław Franciszek Jabłonowski: Polish General of African Descent-
    It is known that a lot of people of African ancestry played prominent roles and indeed contributed to the development of European countries in variegated ways.

    One such personage was Brigadier General Wladyslaw Franciszek Jablonowski (25 October 1769-29 September 1802).

    His origin was shrouded.
    He was the child of Maria Dralise, an English aristocrat and a known African man.

    However, he was adopted by a Polish Nobleman, Konstenty Jablonowski who gave him his family name.
    He attended a military academy and was commissioned as an officer in the Polish Army.

    In 1799 he was made General of the Brigade of the Polish legions.
    He fought in the Napoleonic wars.

    He fought along the French Legionaries in Haiti deployed to fight enslaved Africans who were revolting against French oppression, enslavement, and colonialism.

    General Jabolowski died on 29 September 1809 of dengue fever.
    @ Okoi Obono-Obla

    Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are clearly that of the author, Chief OBONO OBLA and does not represent TheLumineNews or it’s agent.

     

  • 10 Lessons From Philippa Perry’s Book ‘The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read’ (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

    10 Lessons From Philippa Perry’s Book ‘The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read’ (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

     

    1. Children are not adults in training. They are their own people with their own thoughts, feelings, and needs. Treat them with respect and listen to them.

    2. It’s okay to have big feelings. Children may have big tantrums or meltdowns from time to time. This is normal and healthy. Help them to express their feelings in a safe and healthy way.

    3. Praise effort, not ability. When you praise a child’s ability, you are sending the message that they are only good if they are successful. Instead, praise their effort and hard work. This will help them to develop a growth mindset.

    4. Don’t compare children to each other. Every child is different and develops at their own pace. Comparing children to each other will only damage their self-esteem.

    5. Set boundaries, but be loving and supportive. Children need to know where the boundaries are, but they also need to feel loved and supported by their parents.

    6. Be a role model for your children. Children learn by watching the adults in their lives. Be the kind of person you want your children to be.

    7. Don’t be afraid to apologize to your children. If you make a mistake, apologize to your children. This will teach them that it’s okay to make mistakes and that everyone is imperfect.

    8. Spend time with your children. The most important thing you can give your children is your time. Make time to play with them, talk to them, and simply be with them.

    9. Enjoy your children. They grow up so fast! Savor every moment and be grateful for the time you have with them.

    10. Remember that parenting is a journey, not a destination. There will be ups and downs along the way. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Just do your best and learn from your mistakes.

    A guide to parenting. It offers a practical advice on how to raise a happy home.