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As a young girl who is growing with potentials, stay away from boys or men who have nothing to lose. Be very intentional about who you date or get involved with. I had rather aimed high and date a man who has something to lose; potentials, who has great dreams and a future not to be toyed with, than settle for any kind of male.
When you see a man who has something to lose you will know; he is that man who has ambition, that man who has big dreams, that man who wants affluence and influence in the society!
Any man who is involved in politics, leadership or a very committed career male, is someone who has something to lose and he will protect you and himself because he has a reputation at stake.
As a lady, getting involved with any guy you see on the street is very deadly. Infact even replying their texts and giving them attention on your Dm is a potential threat to who you want to be in future!
It is normal for guys to like you, it shows you are attractive.What is not normal is you giving any tom, dick and harry attention on your Dms! You need to set a standard for yourself, Know the kind of men you want to interact and be around wirh!
You will be call rude, proud, but if you don’t give any kind of nigga attention, it is a healthy pride! You don’t need that!
You have the inaleanable right and power to choose and set a standard for yourself. I don’t give my attention to any kind of man, call me what you want, but i have big eyes!! I only give my attention to influence, affluence, potentials and big dreams.
You may just want to play around and have some fun, but I tell you the chances of you getting blackmailed are very high!! Learn to build a defense, your defense might be; being strict, difficult or stubborn but have one!!!
Don’t, I mean do not get involved with anyone just because he is handsome and dripping fashion. The biggest blackmailers are hidden under good looks and great fashion sense. Be very selective! I choose and select the men I give my attention to on a very high level! I have standards! You cannot pick me, I do the picking! You need to have vision! If you don’t have a reputation to protect nor hold yourself in high esteem you cant have my attention.
You are going to be great soon, sex with one wrong person can destroy everything you built.
Sip and meditate on this piece
Have very wonderful morning and a great day ahead.
