by It’s easier to find a man who has money than a man who is mentally sound and emotionally available.
May God give young men the wisdom to know that money will not buy you real love. You might succeed in buying fake love but when the money is out of the equation or when she starts making hers, you become useless!
In recent times, men have been complaining about how women are after money, while I am not affirming that it should be so, the truth, regardless is, some men have nothing to offer asides money.
When we remove money from the equation, you find out that some guys are empty; no spice, no intellectual treasure, no motivation, no care, no romance, nothing! I mean nothing!! They believe that everything is about money, so they refuse to work on themselves to have other attributes that will keep a relationship going!! No act of service, no words of affirmation! Most young men today want to make money, not because they want to provide. Most young men make money because they believe that money will keep marriages or relationships. This is the reason why women leave marriages and relationships when they have their monies.
Yes, money can get you a relationship or marriage, but will money keep it?!
Money can never keep a relationship together, if it could, Bill Gates wouldn’t have divorced his ex-wife, Melinda Gates. As a man you need to make deliberate efforts to spice up your relationship and marriage, you need to be intentional about making her happy! If you think your money will cover up for the emotional inadequacy, you are wrong! She will stay in that relationship or marriage for as long as she can to build herself and make her own money, and once she does, she moves on!!! Be intentional about care, affection, attention, and making out time to spend quality moments together.
While most women who marry rich men cheat as a result of old habits that never die, some cheat for lack of emotional availability! She will carry your money and give it to some guy out there to satisfy her emotionally if you don’t!
Your job is not only to give her money as a single man or pay bills and give her school fees for the children as a married man! You are to make her happy and emotionally satisfied!
If money is all you have to offer, you are of no use when she starts making hers!
‘A woman feels she doesn’t need any man when she makes money’
(It is because most men have nothing to offer asides from MONEY).
